Strong women in films are hard to find today.
Women like Bette Davis, confident, strong and smart, set a standard for the rest of us that has endured over time, but has been copied less and less often.
Bette Davis wouldn’t have been called beautiful in her prime, nor was she the typical Hollywood starlet. She had a voice like a panther and sometimes an attitude to match.
She instinctively knew that she had to learn the lay of the land in order to get ahead. She didn’t look for parts that increased the glam-factor, but parts that were substantial and showed off her natural talent.
She was never one to ‘sleep her way to the top’ for the return of more money or better parts. She acted because she loved it. She interacted with her audience and appreciated the praise she received…because she loved her work.
Bette earned leading roles and better salary by being authentic and developing her talent and style.
Bette Davis didn’t care about glamour, she cared about being recognizable.
Bette’s acting was authentic, as well. She loudly refused to act in a morning wake-up scene in full make-up and perfect hair. When a character role called for her to look beaten or to have a bald head, she was adamant that was how it would be.
Bette Davis was the brightest example of all the tough Hollywood actresses. It wasn’t easy being strong. Women were scorned for speaking their minds. Bette once said, “When a man gives his opinion he’s a man. When a woman gives her opinion she’s a bitch.”
Bette stood her ground and kept it real. She was honest and forthcoming with everyone. The reaction was, “At least we know where she stands.”
Bette Davis succeeded as the most famous woman in the world using nothing more than raw talent, self-confidence and headstrong determination. And, she knew how to connect.
From an article found at StumbleUpon by Johann Hari, “For a while, this not-especially-beautiful woman in her forties ruled Hollywood, playing tough women who chose their careers and their own desires over sacrificing for men or children or a picket fence. She never pretended to be dumb, or a little girl. She didn’t do soft, or simpering. She had a voice like sour cream, and eyes like a raven.” And she was one of the great events of her time.”
What does all this mean for creative entrepreneurs, like writers, musicians and artists?
Be authentically you. Use your real voice. Don’t fear the critics. Stick to what you believe is right for you.
Being a creative is not for sissies. Tough out the hard times. Revel in the good. Treat it like the business that it is.
Do what you love simply because you love it. Don’t do it for money. Realize it may take a very long time to actually make a living at it.
Support others like you. Praise their work. Reach out to your audience. Work for them more than for yourself.
Be a ‘great event’ of your time. Make a splash. Be unique. Be the best at what you do.
Aside from being an example to other creative folks, Bette Davis’ persona was a lesson for all women. She was strong, smart and sexy. Bette lived life fully and well. She was true to her ideals. She soaked up all the knowledge available to her.
Bette Davis was self-confident enough to demand to look bad on camera. She never played down her ambition or intellect to fit a preconceived notion of women.
As her biographer Ed Sikov says, “Bette Davis didn’t give a goddam. She dares us to hate her, and we often do. Which is why we love her.”
What do you think of Bette Davis? Do you know of another person who sets an example to follow?
You know I love to hear from you, please share your thoughts.
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