I hope you’ve begun re-acclimating yourselves to ‘normal’ world now that the holidays are over. Mom, Dad, kids, relatives are all back where they belong. The house is back in its usual state.
Remember my post from last month on Gary Gauthier’s blog, 10 Tricks to Ward Off the Post-Holiday Blues? I gave you a variety of ideas to avoid the feeling of letdown. So you should be feeling pretty good right now. You have a list of activities to keep you busy and upbeat. Maybe you planned a vacation for later this year to anticipate, as well.
I thought this would be a good time to reassess your annual goals and to bring back an older post to help you with that task. As the new year gets under way, we usually have a few leftovers hanging around. Oh, not turkey or pie leftovers. Leftover goals. We aren’t always able to complete the steps to reach our goals in the time we planned. So, rather than give them up or feel badly about not reaching them, we just need to set a new timeline for them.
Of course, there will new goals you want to achieve, too. So let’s review the S.M.A.R.T. way to get there:
Everyday we maintain our surroundings, cleaning house, weeding the garden, laundering clothing and going to work to earn a living. At the same time, we all dream about things we could be enjoying now or someday in the future – travel, a new home, new car, a healthier lifestyle, retirement.
How do we attain those things? Wishing for them won’t do it. Some of us will cut back on our food portions to lose a few pounds. Others will take on a part-time job to save money for a vacation. But, how long do these efforts really last? Usually they don’t last very long, we accomplish very little and feel disappointed in ourselves for not being able to stick with it.
This doesn’t make you bad, lazy, inept, or any other critical label you choose to hang around your neck.
You just didn’t have the best tools for reaching those goals.
We’re going to remedy that problem. What makes the difference in successfully reaching your goals and losing steam after a short period, is what I’m about to lay out for you here. The acronym S.M.A.R.T. has been used by business consultants and coaches for many years and it’s been proven to work, if you follow the guideline.
Specific: If you set a vague goal such as ‘I want to be healthy’ or ‘I want to travel’, how will you know when you’ve reached that goal? Specific goals provide you visualization of the goal and a route that will lead you there, if you follow it. Ask yourself,
Who is involved?
What do I want to accomplish and what are the obstacles to overcome?
Where will it take place?
When will it begin and end?
Measurable: Create the criteria you need to measure your progress toward the goal. For the sample goal, ask yourself,
How will I know it has been accomplished?
Attainable: Once you have defined the desires most important to you, you’ll begin to imagine ways to attain them. You’ll brainstorm ideas. As you develop these ideas, you also develop a confidence in your ability to achieve anything you plan wisely. Ask yourself,
What method will I employ?
Do I have the ability/tools to accomplish it?
Realistic: A realistic goal requires that you are both willing and able to do the work to attain it. Choose a goal that you believe you can reach. Ask yourself,
What conditions would have to be present in order to accomplish this goal?
Time-Frame: Without giving yourself a set time period in which to accomplish the goal, there is no sense of urgency, no fuel for forward movement. Anchor it, and your mind will be set on your goal. Ask yourself,
How long will it take?
What is the start and end date?
Vague goal: I want to travel
Measurable: Keep a log of how much I am saving every week and mark the start and end of the six months on the calendar.
Attainable: I will need to request the time off in advance and clear my desk the week before the trip.
Realistic: It will be tiring to work longer hours so, I will go to bed earlier, and the reward will be a week of lying on the beach and swimming in the ocean.
Time-Frame: I will begin working overtime on today, January 6, 2012 and I will have enough money saved by July 4, 2012.
I wish us all good luck in attaining our goals and look forward to sharing the journey with you.
Before you go, check these links to some pretty wonderful blogs:
The brilliant Donald Maas, at Writer Unboxed, tells us how to decide whether we are Warm vs. Cool writers and how to balance those elements in our writing.
Janice Hardy, from The Other Side of the Story, uses the Bruce Willis movie, Die Hard, to show us how to write a seamless story. In her usual clear voice, she outlines three elements of the movie and how we can use to the same effect in our writing.
On Marketing and Publishing:
Joel Friedlander’s blog, The Book Designer, is one I never miss. He always has something valuable to offer. His recent interview with Dan Blank, of We Grow Media, they discuss how “he helps authors build their writing careers as a business, and also consults for publishers. He has a unique vantage point on what’s going on in the industry.” Find the time to watch this valuable video.
And another one of my go-to favorites is Copyblogger. Pamela Wilson’s post, Zen and the Art of Good Web Design, is a must-read to make your blog appealing to your readers.
On Social Media:
Judy Dunn, of Cat’s Eye Writer, asks the question, Is Twitter Making Us Crappy Writers? She illustrates 5 ways Twitter can helps become better writers.
Justine Musk’s blog, Because You’re a Badass, is always an enlightening place to hang out. Her recent post, How To Flunk Social Media and Lose Me as a True Fan, will make you stop and think about the image you portray on your blog and on social media sites. Justine writes like no other I know. You’ll be glad you visited her.
An Old Man’s Hopes for 2012, written by blogger Don Mills who calls himself The Crabby Old Fart, has a unique list of New Year wishes that made me laugh out loud. But don’t stop at this one post, everything he writes on his blog entitled The Problem With Young People Today Is… cracks me up and he’ll do the same for you.
You know I love hearing from you and anxiously await your comments! Please share some of your goals or fun things you’ve planned to get through the winter doldrums. Have any fun links of your own to share?