Try It, You’ll Like It!

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Have you always wished you could travel to Europe? Wouldn’t you love to see a new location as if you were one of the locals? How about taking an affordable extended vacation-say 2 months in Australia, France, or Ireland? Maybe you just want to spend all winter in a warmer climate?

I have a treat for all of you today! My friend, Patricia Sands, author of The Bridge Club, is joining us to give us a kick in the butt to get moving and see the world. She has the best travel advice on how to get FREE accommodations! Read on:  

Marcia Richards and I first became friends through Kristen Lamb’s fabulous blogging course in which we were both enrolled during the summer. Some tremendous connections were forged at the time and continue to thrive. Very, very cool. Marcia knows how travel has been a big part of my life and asked me to share a few thoughts. I love to talk travel!

I know not everyone wishes to travel far and wide. Some people are happy to never venture very far from where they live. Not I. Ever since I spent a year working and traveling in Europe at the age of 21 in 1967, I’ve been hooked. I love to experience life in different parts of the world, some more than others. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate my wonderful hometown of Toronto and all it has to offer but when I have the opportunity to go further afield, I do my best to make it happen.

This quote from Mark Twain resonated with me many years ago.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” – Mark Twain

There are many parts of the world I have yet to visit but I believe the greatest travel lesson I’ve learned is this: if you have a desire to go somewhere, no matter how unattainable you feel that dream may be, chances are you can make it happen. If this idea calls to you, then read on.

 In today’s uncertain economy, there’s no question untold numbers of travel plans and vacations have been shelved. Often the cost simply squashes dreams. The solution I offer you right here, right now … in fact go ahead and Google it as soon as you finish reading this …two simple words … HOME EXCHANGE.

Antibes, France

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I first seriously looked into this concept of swapping homes about 12 years ago and was instantly intrigued. I had heard of it over the years and finally decided to check it out. Why on earth had I waited so long? You’ll ask yourself the same question! My husband and I have since enjoyed 8 home exchange vacations and highly recommend it. When we first mentioned what we were doing to friends, the reactions ranged from horrified, “You’d let perfect strangers stay in your house?” to excited, “I’ve always wanted to do that!”. When one person screwed up his face and asked, “You’ll sleep in a stranger’s bed?”, we asked how many strangers had slept in the last hotel room he stayed in. Think about it. Every one of our exchange vacations has been wonderful and the truth of the matter is you connect in a personal way with your exchange person/couple/family. With some we have developed a close friendship and others we simply keep in touch from time to time but a connection certainly occurs.

Living in a home in a different part of the world, whether it is a foreign land or a different area of your own country, provides a more complete cultural experience than staying in a hotel. You are instantly part of a community and neighbours or friends of your exchange family will have been asked to introduce themselves to you to see if you need assistance with anything. It’s an amazingly friendly and personal process. For families with children the benefits are even greater as there are homes with toys and yards. Car exchanges are often offered and specifics such as non-smoking homes or pet-free or child-free can be requested. On the other side of that, you can also find pet owners looking to swap.

village home in France

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The possibilities are endless. The longest exchange for us was two months (September, October) in a beautiful home in the middle of a private vineyard in the Var region of France. We were in the hills but just a half-hour from the coast and even got to help with the grape harvest (at our request). The other holidays were in Portugal, Italy, London, Vienna, a second in the south of France, and California.

Our most recent exchange didn’t actually involve us traveling. We arranged for a family in Toronto who wanted to visit Florida to go to our home there while our son and his family came to Toronto for Christmas and used their home. Flexibility is the key! Without getting into all the details here, there are excellent house exchange websites that have been established since long before the internet. In those days they produced catalogues of their listed properties. With e-mail, the ability to connect is simple and before you ever commit to an exchange you can get to know each other. Interior and exterior photos are exchanged as well so you can determine if the property is acceptable to you.

 All the websites have FAQ pages and are usually only too happy to answer personally any other questions or concerns. Obviously the cost of your trip becomes significantly lower when accommodation is free. We have never experienced one problem and you find your home as you left it (or possibly even tidier!) when you return. What I love best about this is that it reaffirms my belief that most people are good and honest and just like you. You will hear these words from the many people on these exchange sites who write about their experiences. Give it a try!

There are many excellent exchange websites, well organized and detailed. Memberships are very reasonable. Some are specialized with regard to age, profession, or culture. Here are a few in no particular order, just to make it easy for you to get started:

HomeLink International – established in 1953 and spanning 27 countries – 39,000+ listings in 143 countries

Seniors Home Exchange – exclusively for the over 50 age group

Intervac Home Exchange – since 1953 – over 30,000 listings, 80% in Europe – excellent intro video

I’m happy to answer questions about home exchanges, based on our experiences, if anyone has them. I’m actually writing quite a bit about the subject in my next novel. Part of the story is set in the south of France where I’ve just spent four months, pretending I was really living there, doing research and writing. That’s the part of the world that keeps calling us back and we have home exchanges to thank for some wonderful memories!

Try it! Whether it’s a weekend enjoying The Big Apple, a romantic rendezvous in Paris, a month hiking and taking cooking classes in Italy, golfing in Ireland, sailing in New Zealand or simply exploring whatever corner of this wonderful world beckons you. Home exchange can enhance your experience and make your dreams affordable. You’ll like it!


Patricia SandsPatricia Sands lives in Toronto, Canada and has degrees from the University of Waterloo and York University. With a happily blended family of seven adult children and, at last count, six grandchildren, life is full and time is short. Beginning with her first Kodak Brownie camera at the age of six, she has told stories all of her life through photography. Much to her surprise a few years ago, she began to write and her debut novel The Bridge Club has just been published through iUniverse. Currently at work on her second novel, Patricia admits the writing muse has possessed her. She is particularly drawn to the rewarding friendships of women and the challenges many embrace once their families are grown. “It’s never too late to begin something new,” she enthuses. “As the saying goes, just do it!” 

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So, where are you going to travel next? Does home-swapping sound like a good idea for you? What’s your dream vacation?

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12 thoughts on “Try It, You’ll Like It!

  1. What a great article! I’ve read many things about home exchange but I think I never read anyone putting it this simple. Most first impressions are “would you let a stranger into your house?” and yet, people often do not have a problem with staying in a hotel room, where things are cleaned by stranger one, meals are cooked by stranger two, and so on (not a problem with that, just pointing out that there are many “strangers” around).

    Home exchange is “amazingly friendly and personal” and that’s great! You get to know people, you connect and that means no stranger is really staying in your house.

    If anyone wants to give it a try, I invite you to visit HomeForHome, we are the best option 😉


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  4. Shut the front door!
    This is real?!?! I’ve seen home exchanges as part of movies/stories but I had no idea it was real and people actually did it. This is fahhhbulous and totally something I could see hubby and I doing once we get the dude out of house…lol…It sounds like perfection because like Tameri, I’d love to have longer stays in places so I could really experience the culture and have a chance to visit those local treasures that the “regular” tourists don’t learn about it.
    Amazing Patricia (and thank you Marcia for hosting) – fabulous post and just sparked all kinds of new DREAMS for me to ponder!
    woot woot!

  5. Awww, great post! I love to read about Patricia’s travels and the links for home exchanges are awesome.

    I’ve always wanted to visit somewhere for longer than a few weeks. This is exactly what I need. Who knows, maybe we can exchange houses and I’ll visit Toronto and you can come to California. ; )

    • Hey Tameri, How about you come to Oneonta, NY and we’ll go to California! We’re 1 hour away from Bethel Woods(the home of the Woodstock Festival) and 30 minutes from Cooperstown which has the baseball hall of fame and a mere 4 hrs from The Big Apple! Sound exciting? lol

      • I’m all over that! Not much of a Woodstock or baseball fan, but I bet it’s gorgeous up there with organic farms and things I don’t see here in SoCal.

        We Wana sistahs could totally get a house swapping thing going on. Wouldn’t that be fun?

      • That would be fun! But, you know once you got here, I wouldn’t want to leave!
        It really is beautiful country here. Lots of farms, the Catskill mountains and several lakes. We also are a college town with Oneonta State College and Hartwick College which is a private school. Being around college students is a hoot!

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